The Story of Me

      It has been 9 days since I have posted last. Everything has been going very well. Well minus the nights I have not slept very well, but that is due to different issues. Well, kinda. So I have made a lot of progress in my mental health and my Gender Dysphoria. Things have been looking up quite a bit. Especially since the crappy holidays are here. I feel my thoughts and feelings have now been fully put on the table to my other half after writing these. Yes, they do read these and they support me doing writing these blogs 100%. I love how supportive they are and understanding.     One of the updates in this journey of mine is I have told my aunt. Yes! I told my aunt who, in my last post was very worried, what is going on. I switched some details around, but she now knows. She told my mom as well because I didn't really care how she reacted. I was more worried about my aunt. But my aunt took it quite well surprisingly. She did ask a lot of questions, but I thi...

      So another day with another breakdown. This time it wasn't about my personal issues that I am facing. No, it was about something I have been struggling with for a few weeks. It is getting better though, but it is still tough. What do you expect though when your other half slams you with big news. News that needed to be told gently. So yeah, I have been having some issues with it. Am I okay with what they told me? Yes! Yes, I am. It took me a little bit and it took a lot of talking about with one another, but I have gradually gotten better. So these breakdowns are due to not being okay, they are more so due to the fear of not knowing what is to come in the future. I hate the unknown. I guess you could say I like to have control or be in control of situations. Most of that is due to my past and helping my mental illness. At least that is how I see it anyway.      So it was I think last month when I got the news from my other half that hit me so hard. We...

      When in my head a lot of things can happen. I can either overthink things, dwell on things, or the demons I have decided to come out and mess with me. When any of these things happen I usually fall into depression and I don't know what to do to fix it. Lately, the one that mostly pops into my head is I guess you can say it would be one of my demons. I have quite a few of those and most of them are from my past and have made peace with them, but they like to come back and I get upset. This new one on the other hand is a lot worse. I say it is a lot worse because I have yet to seek help professionally so I have no way to deal with it or know how to handle it. I have joined some groups which is how I figured out what this demon is in my head, but to get to the bottom of it and work on it I need actual help. Trying to figure out how to treat this can come with a lot of loss but with a lot of gains as well. I have an idea what this demon in my head is, but it is weird to...